Ran across this and felt I needed to share, especially now that we are witnessing so many men dismissing Christine Ford's testimony against Brett Kavanaugh during the Supreme Court hearing. Wake Up Men!!!
On a side note, I also just learned that women make up 52% of the registered voters. We have the majority! Let's not waste it when we vote!
Guys ask why women are so pissed off. Jackson Katz, a prominent social researcher, illustrates why. He's done it with hundreds of audiences:
"I draw a line down the middle of a chalkboard, sketching a male symbol on one side and a female symbol on the other.
Then I ask just the men: What steps do you guys take, on a daily basis, to prevent yourselves from being sexually assaulted? At first there is a kind of awkward silence as the men try to figure out if they've been asked a trick question. The silence gives way to a smattering of nervous laughter. Occasionally, a young a guy will raise his hand and say, 'I stay out of prison.' This is typically followed by another moment of laughter, before someone finally raises his hand and soberly states, 'Nothing. I don't think about it.'
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Then I ask the women the same question. What steps do you take on a daily basis to prevent yourselves from being sexually assaulted? Women throughout the audience immediately start raising their hands. As the men sit in stunned silence, the women recount safety precautions they take as part of their daily routine.
Hold my keys as a potential weapon. Look in the back seat of the car before getting in. Carry a cell phone. Don't go jogging at night. Lock all the windows when I sleep, even on hot summer nights. Be careful not to drink too much. Don't put my drink down and come back to it; make sure I see it being poured. Own a big dog. Carry Mace or pepper spray. Have an unlisted phone number. Have a man's voice on my answering machine. Park in well-lit areas. Don't use parking garages. Don't get on elevators with only one man, or with a group of men. Vary my route home from work. Watch what I wear. Don't use highway rest areas. Use a home alarm system. Don't wear headphones when jogging. Avoid forests or wooded areas, even in the daytime. Don't take a first-floor apartment. Go out in groups. Own a firearm. Meet men on first dates in public places. Make sure to have a car or cab fare. Don't make eye contact with men on the street. Make assertive eye contact with men on the street.”
― Jackson Katz, The Macho Paradox: Why Some Men Hurt Women and How All Men Can Help
(The first man to minor in women's studies at the University of Massachusetts-Amherst, holds a master's degree from the Harvard Graduate School of Education, and a Ph.D. in cultural studies and education from UCLA.)
Saturday, September 29, 2018
Wednesday, September 26, 2018
A Lovely Cake Offers A Welcome Slice
Top Chef is one of my favorite shows. Love to see the competition, the creativity, and the backstabbing. There are always stories - who stole someone's recipe, who is flirting with whom, and which chef is going to be thrown under the bus.
On the flip side, just started watching The Great British Baking Show. All the competitors are kind, good-natured, and pitch in to help their fellow contestants to finish their baked items. The hosts are lovely and when they judge the food, they even hand out constructive criticism in a respectful, thoughtful way. When the winner is announced, all of the participants are genuinely happy for them.
It's quite the difference between an American competition and a British one. Perhaps the U.S. is losing its manners, it's sense of respect and kindness. Or we simply enjoy the cutthroat side of entertainment. It has been a breath of fresh air to watch a program with so much caring.
On the flip side, just started watching The Great British Baking Show. All the competitors are kind, good-natured, and pitch in to help their fellow contestants to finish their baked items. The hosts are lovely and when they judge the food, they even hand out constructive criticism in a respectful, thoughtful way. When the winner is announced, all of the participants are genuinely happy for them.
It's quite the difference between an American competition and a British one. Perhaps the U.S. is losing its manners, it's sense of respect and kindness. Or we simply enjoy the cutthroat side of entertainment. It has been a breath of fresh air to watch a program with so much caring.
Tuesday, September 25, 2018
Hostess with the Mostess!
One of my favorite treats is the Suzy Q. I know, not very nutritious but damn they are good, especially frozen.
When Hostess stopped production on this delicious treat, it was a sad day. Then they brought them back! I picked up a box and alas they were a raggedy imitation of the original. Different size, dry cake, and hardly any filling. Didn't buy anymore after that because it just wasn't the same.
A couple weeks ago I ran across a box of Suzy Q's, couldn't help myself, and picked them up. Who knows - perhaps they had changed?
Well I was gobsmacked because they had indeed returned to the chocolate, creamy delight I previously knew. Just like the old recipe!
Decided to give Hostess kudos for retooling the recipe. Looked on line for the corporate contact and ran across an article that said after so much backlash they decided to return to the old recipe. Best thing they did!
Found the corporate website and sent them a congratulations thank you email expressing my gratitude that the Suzy Q had been restored to its greatness.
Yesterday received a nice thank you letter back along with a coupon for a free Hostess snack. Definitely channeled my mom in this venture as she was renown for all the letters she wrote to companies about her experiences with their products. I will think of her when I'm enjoying my free treat!
When Hostess stopped production on this delicious treat, it was a sad day. Then they brought them back! I picked up a box and alas they were a raggedy imitation of the original. Different size, dry cake, and hardly any filling. Didn't buy anymore after that because it just wasn't the same.
A couple weeks ago I ran across a box of Suzy Q's, couldn't help myself, and picked them up. Who knows - perhaps they had changed?
Well I was gobsmacked because they had indeed returned to the chocolate, creamy delight I previously knew. Just like the old recipe!
Decided to give Hostess kudos for retooling the recipe. Looked on line for the corporate contact and ran across an article that said after so much backlash they decided to return to the old recipe. Best thing they did!
Found the corporate website and sent them a congratulations thank you email expressing my gratitude that the Suzy Q had been restored to its greatness.
Yesterday received a nice thank you letter back along with a coupon for a free Hostess snack. Definitely channeled my mom in this venture as she was renown for all the letters she wrote to companies about her experiences with their products. I will think of her when I'm enjoying my free treat!
Sunday, September 23, 2018
Another Beach Weekend Gone Too Soon
Seems like as soon as the weekend begins, I'm right back to Sunday night!
Spent the weekend:
All lots of fun but over too soon. 😣 Here's to a new week starting and working my way back to another weekend!!
P.S. Happy birthday to sis Eilene who celebrated another year on September 21!! Love you sis! ❤
Spent the weekend:
- Tackling jobs with Beach Guy;
- Some evenings spent picnicing inside with crackers, cheese, grapes, and Toasted Carmel Black Velvet;
- Some days ate at our usual Snug Harbor and one day we tried out The Grill. Food not bad but the best part was watching a patron try to each eight wings smothered in ghost pepper sauce. He could only eat three and his eyes and nose were running profusely when he gave up;
Guy trying to choke down hot wings |
- Getting a pedicure together and experiencing a hot rock foot massage for the first time ever - divine!;
- Browsing the outlet mall then spending the evening burning a Pecan Pumpkin Waffles candle that smelled beyond scrumptious;
- Wandering the Lincoln City Sunday market.
All lots of fun but over too soon. 😣 Here's to a new week starting and working my way back to another weekend!!
P.S. Happy birthday to sis Eilene who celebrated another year on September 21!! Love you sis! ❤
Friday, September 21, 2018
These Boots Are Made for Wearing!
A couple of weeks ago I sent a funny meme to Beach Guy. The lady in the meme was wearing a really cute pair of suede pink boots, which i was fashionistically craving.
Arrived to Beach Guy's place last night and he surprised me with a pair of the boots! He said he wasn't sure if they would fit due to my muscular calves but they slipped right on. Yippee!! Cannot wait to wear them!!
Arrived to Beach Guy's place last night and he surprised me with a pair of the boots! He said he wasn't sure if they would fit due to my muscular calves but they slipped right on. Yippee!! Cannot wait to wear them!!
Tuesday, September 18, 2018
Baubles, Bestie and Beach Guy
It's surprising how much you can get done in a weekend when you are trying to catch up!
Last weekend a sister's lunch was scheduled for Saturday so there was no trip to the beach for me. It ended up being just Julie and Arlene, which was still a good time catching up with each other. After lunch we stopped off at Arlenes as she had some crystal chandelier pieces which came from my grandmother's house she wished to give me. Not sure what project will arise from the glass but as always it should be unique.
Here are some ideas from Pinterest.
Spent a lot of time doing laundry and putting away my clothes. Frequent traveling throws a wrinkle into my process as there always seems to be an unpacked suitcase floating around.
Hit Goodwill Saturday afternoon and found a killer pair of $1.99 heels. Me so loves a bargain!!
Spent Sunday with bestie watching "All the Money in the World", based on the kidnapping of John Paul Getty III. It's apparent from that family dynasty that money does not buy happiness and may even cost you an ear.
Will be cruising again to the beach this Thursday night to see Beach Guy for the weekend. Yes, I know I've been gushing about him but it's so fantastic we found each other. We laugh to no end, we have deep conversations about life, music, politics, history, fashion, and he spoils me to no end. Never had someone who treated me this way or with whom I've had such a connection. So refreshing to be with someone who "gets"me, who doesn't need words or phrases to be dumbed down, who inspires me to think, and who appreciates everything that makes up who I am, with no judgment. I am enjoying every minute of this relationship and can't wait to see what further adventures await us as I'm in for the ride.
Last weekend a sister's lunch was scheduled for Saturday so there was no trip to the beach for me. It ended up being just Julie and Arlene, which was still a good time catching up with each other. After lunch we stopped off at Arlenes as she had some crystal chandelier pieces which came from my grandmother's house she wished to give me. Not sure what project will arise from the glass but as always it should be unique.
Here are some ideas from Pinterest.
Spent a lot of time doing laundry and putting away my clothes. Frequent traveling throws a wrinkle into my process as there always seems to be an unpacked suitcase floating around.
Hit Goodwill Saturday afternoon and found a killer pair of $1.99 heels. Me so loves a bargain!!
Spent Sunday with bestie watching "All the Money in the World", based on the kidnapping of John Paul Getty III. It's apparent from that family dynasty that money does not buy happiness and may even cost you an ear.
Will be cruising again to the beach this Thursday night to see Beach Guy for the weekend. Yes, I know I've been gushing about him but it's so fantastic we found each other. We laugh to no end, we have deep conversations about life, music, politics, history, fashion, and he spoils me to no end. Never had someone who treated me this way or with whom I've had such a connection. So refreshing to be with someone who "gets"me, who doesn't need words or phrases to be dumbed down, who inspires me to think, and who appreciates everything that makes up who I am, with no judgment. I am enjoying every minute of this relationship and can't wait to see what further adventures await us as I'm in for the ride.
Sunday, September 9, 2018
Pumpkin Pecan My Senses!
Picked up this candle last weekend and finally lit it. IT SMELLS DIVINE!! Seriously the best smelling scent of maple, brown sugar, pumpkin and pecans wafting through the air. And the scent lingers long after the wick flame has been blown. I'm going to have to pick up a few more of these candles while they are on sale!
Thursday, September 6, 2018
Catching Up with a Caterpillar
I made a little friend this week. This fuzzy caterpillar made his way to a piece of driftwood that sits on my back porch table. He was crawling all over that wood, stretching his neck to see what was happening. He showed up again yesterday then today he made his way to a little angel figure also on the table.
This evening he was back on his log moving along then stretching his neck out almost as if he was listening to my phone conversation. Pretty darn cute visitor to my humble abode. 😊🐛
This evening he was back on his log moving along then stretching his neck out almost as if he was listening to my phone conversation. Pretty darn cute visitor to my humble abode. 😊🐛
Old Friend Lunch Reunion
Met friend Marie for lunch yesterday at the local Cow Deli, which is just a block from work. Always fun to catch up with her as we've been friends since junior high.
During lunch I glanced over and thought I spotted another high school friend and neighbor, Renee. Hadn't seen her in years but was sure it was her, along with her mom. Sure enough, we confirmed it was her and spent time catching up as best we could. Popped over to see her mom, who couldn't believe it was me, this former plain jane neighborhood girl. She went on and on about how beautiful I was. Hmmm...I really must have looked the troll in high school.
It was a nice surprise visit, especially since Renee lives in Baltimore.
During lunch I glanced over and thought I spotted another high school friend and neighbor, Renee. Hadn't seen her in years but was sure it was her, along with her mom. Sure enough, we confirmed it was her and spent time catching up as best we could. Popped over to see her mom, who couldn't believe it was me, this former plain jane neighborhood girl. She went on and on about how beautiful I was. Hmmm...I really must have looked the troll in high school.
It was a nice surprise visit, especially since Renee lives in Baltimore.
Labor Day and Lincoln City
A runny nose and inability to sleep forced me to wake up at 4:15 this morning. Perhaps it's a sign to clean my kitchen; however, I'm taking it as a sign to update my blog!
Spent the holiday weekend with Beach Guy. Fabulous as always! One day we cruised to Tillamook to visit the cheese factory but alas the line was long so we scooted over to the Blue Heron, which was much more quaint and inviting. Sampled cheese, had lunch, and took a little brie and caraway havarti home to enjoy.
On the way home stopped at the Red Barn antique flea market. A few vendors were outside selling a variety of odds and ends. Heading inside were a couple of ladies who appeared very happy to finally see some customers. Want a large metal belt buckle? Knock off Hummel figurines? Plastic earrings straight out of the seventies? All that and more were available to you at the Red Barn!
Also hit the outlet malls along with downtown Lincoln City to browse. Lots of tourist crap and overpriced crusty items daring to call themselves antiques.
One night I took Beach Guy's dare and ate sushi. Never been a fan of it but trusted him to order edible items. And you know what? It was all very tasty! I'm now a convert to sushi. My favorite dish was crunchy on the outside covered with an eel sauce. Yes - eel sauce but it was absolutely delish!
Was another memorable weekend. Last night I celebrated my trip by washing my filthy car. Windshield was so caked it was getting hard to see through it so had no choice but to clean it.
Well, it's now 4:58am and there is still time to clean the kitchen before work so I bid adieu for the day.
Spent the holiday weekend with Beach Guy. Fabulous as always! One day we cruised to Tillamook to visit the cheese factory but alas the line was long so we scooted over to the Blue Heron, which was much more quaint and inviting. Sampled cheese, had lunch, and took a little brie and caraway havarti home to enjoy.
On the way home stopped at the Red Barn antique flea market. A few vendors were outside selling a variety of odds and ends. Heading inside were a couple of ladies who appeared very happy to finally see some customers. Want a large metal belt buckle? Knock off Hummel figurines? Plastic earrings straight out of the seventies? All that and more were available to you at the Red Barn!
Also hit the outlet malls along with downtown Lincoln City to browse. Lots of tourist crap and overpriced crusty items daring to call themselves antiques.
One night I took Beach Guy's dare and ate sushi. Never been a fan of it but trusted him to order edible items. And you know what? It was all very tasty! I'm now a convert to sushi. My favorite dish was crunchy on the outside covered with an eel sauce. Yes - eel sauce but it was absolutely delish!
Was another memorable weekend. Last night I celebrated my trip by washing my filthy car. Windshield was so caked it was getting hard to see through it so had no choice but to clean it.
Well, it's now 4:58am and there is still time to clean the kitchen before work so I bid adieu for the day.
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